Monday, July 02, 2007

The Boys of summer





Here is The Boy hanging out in the back yard with his best buddy as they dig into their summer reading:




This is what summer looks like to me, the summer of my youth. I remember playing with the kids in the neighborhood - nothing planned, nothing organized - we'd just go outside and find each other and engage in some unstructured activity, as frivolous as it was fantastic. I didn't think that kind of experience existed anymore, but every day I bike home through the neighborhood past pick-up basketball games on the street, chalk-drawn hop scotch boards on the sidewalks, naked babies running through sprinklers. It's a crazy-beautiful, Norman-Rockwell-painting kind of a place, drawn to include families with two mommies.

5 Comments:

Blogger Vanessa said...

Isn't it funny how much you appreciate the unstructured fun of it all when you look back? I had my first playdate yesterday. Playdates appear to suck.

PS- Pig once said that salmon skin is like fish bacon. Too right you are, O Porcine One! I just had some. Mmmmmmmmmmmm.

8:39 AM  
Blogger AnnaRay said...

There was a story in the Times several months ago about mommies who mix alcohol with playdates. That's the way to go.

10:11 AM  
Blogger Phil said...

Just as long as it doesn't lead to a recreation of this Simpsons episode

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Three_Men_and_a_Comic_Book

:-)

Hammocks rock.

11:59 AM  
Anonymous cutsh said...

A few things I know for sure:

1. Playdates do suck: A minefield of the paranoid and untrusting. Overparenting Anonymous.
2. Playdates on alchohol sounds good, but I fear stupid untrusting paranoids, thats why I want them out of Washington.
3. Salmon skin rocks, ALMOST as good as bacon.
4. Sentimetanlity is tricky, I remember running in my gang, days in the woods with no supervision, damming the creek, getting loaded on 5cent halfpints of chocolate milk at the local playgrounds, box hockey and the swingset (it was a lot bigger then, that swingset). But I was 7-10 years old. My first instinct is to give my three knuckleheads that freedom, but two of them aren't quite there yet.
5. Playdates on hallucinogens might work, lets give that at try!

12:26 PM  
Blogger Vanessa said...

Then they did a segement about wine and playdates on the Today show, the most insipid and pointless show on, unless you count Access Hollywood, and people were debating about having like one small glass of wine while the kids played. Shoot, I thought when they said "alcohol and playdates" they were talking about drinking things like martinis or scotch. CHARDONNAY DOES NOT COUNT if we are talking about a glass. Might as well be Tang. Yesterday's playdate involved a very misbehaved child who hit everyone except me and little man. I had envisioned us, the mamas, drining coffee on the porch while the kids played in the yard. Instead, I watched the other mommies chase after their kids and say "pleasedontkicktheballoverthereimnotoingtogogetitagainwellokmaybejustthisonelasttime..." This child, I'll call him Damian, threw three glasses of water onto the ground, snatched up some brownies while his mother wasnt looking, and went through my nappy bag, putting his grubby hands and mouth all over my baby's stuff before I knew what was happening. When I finally pried my things away from him, hissing "give that BACK TO ME" at him under my breath, his mother came over, horrified, saying "Please honey we don't go through other peoples' stuff mmmmkay?" Fun!

12:51 PM  

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